Leading with Love
Six lessons on inspiration, leadership and drawing the best out of yourself and others
From Nick Williams and Liz Trubridge, the BAFTA and Golden Winning executive producer of all six series of Downton Abbey
“Anyone who is willing to put their creativity in a public domain has to be willing to be vulnerable, to be brave enough to say, “This is who I am and this is how I would like to interpret this.” What will come with this is a degree of fragility and fear and that can often manifest itself in an ego. I think as a producer I have to be a little bit of a psychologist, to hear and understand the fear behind the behaviour, and allow people to feel safe and valued.”
I don’t know about you, but I love it when someone has very little idea how inspiring they are and how much light they bring.
This is why I loved reconnecting with my friend Liz Trubridge in February 2013 on location at the Criterion Restaurant in Piccadilly in central London during the filming of a scene for series four of Downton Abbey.
We rekindled a friendship we began in 2008. Over many lunches, we talked about leadership, spirituality, the loves and passions, challenges and problems, in both of our lives. I left feeling so inspired by each of our conversations and as Liz kept revealing her unique approach to leadership that I had been one of the foundations of the global success that is Downton Abbey. Leadership for her isn’t just a job for her to do, it is a calling of her heart.
She has been at the heart of the team that has created phenomenal creative and commercial results.
And the result of all those conversations is that we created this programme together.
We all know that leadership is about getting results.
So whilst you might be able to get people to do what you want them to by threats, manipulation or even aggression, it is unlikely that they will willingly you their best. You might get compliance.
Another way to get results is taking the time to inspire them, build trust, understand each other, engage and encourage them, to welcome and allow fear and vulnerability, and enable them to give their best. Liz’s leadership philosophy is about how you do the second, what I have come to call inspirational leadership.
Liz is much happier being behind the camera or microphone, and is much less comfortable being seen and being front of house, and it has taken a lot of my support and encouragement to help her show up in this way.
So, for the first time ever, in this programme Liz shares how she has created a workplace that sets out to encourage and enable people, both in front of and behind the camera, to give their best, help them handle their fear, with amazing results!
The Leading with Love programme consists of:
The six principles of “Love Your Leadership” as six audio conversations of us between 5 and 13 minutes between Liz and Nick expanding of those six principles
A PDF of highlights and extra ideas around these principles, of around 13,000 words
Self-coaching questions at the end of each principle to help you apply the ideas to your own life and leadership
Around thirty of Liz’s most powerful quotations and thoughts about the principles of “Leading with Love.”
We have deliberately priced this programme to make it widely accessible, and costs only £57 for the audios and accompanying PDF.
The aims and outcomes of this programme:
Whist the programme is a conversation between two leaders in their fields, our goal was to share universal ideas that can be nutrients and fuel for the way we all lead, either in our own lives or in our workplace or business.
So, by listening to this programme, reading and absorbing the accompanying highlighted notes, and reflecting on the personal coaching enquiries and questions, you will gain the following:
The untold story of inspired leadership that has fostered creative expression and contributed to the massive global success of Downton Abbey
How to lead and create a workplace by consciously operating beyond judgement, and from a sense of love rather than magnifying a feeling of fear
How to create power with people rather than over them
How Liz has consciously led the project by seeking to enable the best in herself and everyone around her, and seeing the divine spark in everyone around herself and those around her
The power of fostering collaboration and collective endeavour within your project
The importance of creating a workplace with a flatter hierarchy, and everyone can feel valued and collaboration and team work is encouraged and valued
How, as a leader, relieving yourself the pressure if trying to know everything, instead looking forward to the idea of not knowing, and getting excited about the unknown as an invitation to be more collaborative, to operate as a team and ask for help
How as a leader, you recognise, welcome and work with the often untapped power of vulnerability that most people bring to work with them and transform it into a strength. A vision of a new type of professionalism
How to value and honour your own humanity and your self-leadership journey as well as your strengths
What is universal about inspired leadership in your workplace, no matter what environment you operate in and how you can help “magic and miracles” happen in whatever area you operate in
Self-coaching questions and ideas to apply these six principles to your own leadership
Whether you love Downton or not, Liz’s leadership has contributed to its massive success, and what she has done on set has universal applicability to anyone who sees their leadership as being about enabling people to show up and give their best.
Liz Trubridge is a highly acclaimed radio, TV and film producer, best known for her work as an executive producer on the entire hit TV series Downton Abbey. The series has achieved global success and became the most nominated non-US show in the history of the Emmys. In 2011, it entered the Guinness Book of World Records for receiving the highest critical review ratings of any show. Liz is also the producer of the Downton Abbey film, to be released in 2019.
Liz left the BBC in 1994 to go freelance, and has many other production credits include the hit TV series Last Kingdom, The Riff Raff Element and Sex, Chips & Rock n’ Roll. She is also the producer of the acclaimed BBC dramas A Short Stay in Switzerland and A Song for Jenny, as well as From Time to Time, a film directed by the Downton Abbey creator and writer Julian Fellowes. She has also produced series two of Tin Star for Sky Atlantic.
It was her experience on Downton Abbey that gave Liz the opportunity to let her accumulated leadership experience, ideas and skills come to the fore and blossom. Her unique leadership style has proved a crucial factor in the show’s success. This is the first time that she has talked about this aspect of her work. She has also been a student of A Course in Miracles for over twenty years.
Nick Williams is a world-leading expert on inspirational leadership. Nick knows that inspiration is the highest quality fuel for achievement, much more powerful than manipulation and force. His passion is working with leaders and emerging leaders, helping them to flourish in their roles and to become a source of inspiration to others. His coaching clients have achieved amazing results: landmark hotels, TV series, pioneering schools, best-selling books and inspired businesses.
Nick is himself a best-selling author, whose 14 books include the ground-breaking The Work We Were Born to Do. He gives talks at events and conferences around the world, and has been invited by many household-name companies to speak to their employees and leadership teams, including BT, Johnson & Johnson, the Institute of Leadership & Management, BAE, IKEA, the BBC, Yahoo, MasterCard, Deloitte, W. H. Smith, the Met Police, McKinsey & Company, the Chartered Institute of Marketing, the Health and Safety Executive, the Global Leaders Academy, Yo! Sushi and Merrill Lynch. His work has been widely featured in the media, including on television and in the national press.
For twenty-one years, he was involved with the Alternatives programme in Piccadilly, London, where he met and hosted many of the leading thinkers in the spheres of creative, personal and spiritual development, such as Deepak Chopra, Susan Jeffers, Wayne Dyer, Marianne Williamson, Eckhart Tolle, Julia Cameron and Neale Donald Walsch. He has been a student of A Course in Miracles for twenty-five years.
Nick loves helping people to combine the spiritual, entrepreneurial, leadership and business aspects of themselves in their work. His website is: www.iamnickwilliams.com